Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
Jodechi has been using methods similar to ‘Cognitive Behavioural Therapy’ (CBT) for many years. Now as a qualified practitioner Jodechi understands the powerful impact some of these techniques can have on helping empower people back to health and wellbeing.
Jodechi is having great success with people with different types of ‘dis-ease’ such as depression, low self-esteem, anger and many types of phobias ranging from agoraphobia – one woman hadn’t left her home in almost 11 years - to another client with OCD: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder struggling under a weight of repetitive tasks and hindering a normal life. Jodechi now reports that both are doing well and living full and unfettered lives.
Many wrongly assume that CBT is just another ‘positive thinking’ fad – in fact Jodechi’s aim is not just to teach the client to think positively but to help teach her to think realistically. When things go seriously wrong in one’s life it would be somewhat strange to take a wholly positive view of the situation and be pleased by it. Using CBT, Jodechi would help to put the situation into a realistic perspective without taking away the seriousness of it.
Jodechi is convinced that in many instances emotions and behaviour are determined by thinking and that emotional disorders result from negative and unrealistic thinking and that by altering these patterns emotional disturbance can be reduced or eliminated.
CBT is based on the idea that our interpretation of an event is crucial; many people wrongly assume that other people or unfortunate circumstances are directly responsible for the unpleasant way they feel.
Take for example, the case of public speaking. Three speakers may give the same talk which is equally received by the audience. One speaker may notice the applause and be pleased about the way she performed. The second speaker might feel depressed because he thought that the audience was only clapping to be polite, and that actually they were bored. The third speaker might feel angry because she had put a great deal of effort into preparing the talk and she thought that the audience was not sufficiently appreciative.
Therefore, it is clear that the same event may lead to a range of emotions depending on how the event is interpreted and evaluated. Jodechi therefore integrates many of the CBT techniques into her daily working practices, while staying faithful to her central philosophy of treating the person as a whole rather than trying to treat the symptoms of an illness.
Jodechi would like to leave you with the words of the first century philosopher Epictetus, that really sums up the central tenet of CBT: ‘Men are disturbed not by things but by the views which they take of them’.
Please note that you can also make an appointment with Jodechi using Skype and this is available for Spiritual Life-Coaching, CBT and counselling. Skype is both audio and visual.
If you are interested in scheduling an appointment with Jodechi please ring her on 01306-731816, international +44 1306 731816 or email her on info@jodechi.com
See directions to the Healing clinic in Surrey.
Love as though you have never been hurt
If nothing changes, nothing changes
Seek always for the answer within
Walk the talk
Sing as though no-one can hear you
For those who believe no proof is necessary
Learn your lessons quickly and move on
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing
Your thoughts create your world
Live as though heaven is on earth
Perfect kindness acts without thinking of kindness
Every end is a new beginning
After a few unsuccessful sessions with a counselor and one psychotherapist in London, I decided to give CBT therapy a go after a friend recommended Jodechi. As I guy, I found counseling immensely frustrating and soul-destroying, like talking to parrot that was repeating stuff back to me I had just said.
I've found CBT refreshingly different - identifying where I have made mistakes at work or assumed the worse from the CEO's comments. In short, I've been able to apply the tools I have learned from CBT and made immediate changes in my workplace and even finding a new way to communicate with my wife. Although I'm sure not 'cured' it is certainly a good start and looking forward to another session with Jodechi.
T.P.
These last three years have been long and diffcult for me, as I have suffered from severe depression, high blood pressure and personal difficulties. Jodechi has helped me by using her healing skills and her deep understanding of trauma and people's illnesses. I was in total despair and had no respect for my life.
Jodechi is truly gifted and the impact of my healing, counselling and CBT sessions have meant that I am now living a happy whole life in the true sense now. My body and soul are healing and I cannot thank her enough for her strength, wisdom, encouragement and the hands on healing all of which have enabled me to appreciate the gift of life once again.
L.F.
